I am a multi award winning Empowerment Specialist who helps women find their voice, build confidence & create healthy boundaries
I have put all of my tools together for YOU so that YOU can now become your own Empowerment Specialist!
I have had a very colorful past. My life was full of fear and self doubt. I felt broken and drowning in chaos. If you are interested in finding out more about how I stopped living in the "Sad Story Olympics" and moved from victim to victorious you can check out my Tedx talk below.
For now, let me ask you a question...
If you were faced with the following options and your life depended on it - which would YOU choose?
1. Empower yourself out of dysfunctional thinking, behaviors & relationships by taking action
2. Accept your status quo, comply, keep your mouth shut and die slowly every day pretending everything is "fine"?
This is your first NCB newsflash - YOUR LIFE DOES DEPEND ON IT! And the answer should always be option 1 ALL DAY LONG - every day. You are your responsibility. YOU are your own hero. Let me share why...
Everything and I mean EVERYTHING you do or say is a choice. When you CHOOSE option 1, you choose YOU. You have now become your own hero. You get to decide what your next chapter looks and feels like. You also get to decide WHO is in it. People often think this sounds selfish but I am here to tell you it is SELF-FULL! When you take care of YOU, then and only then can you properly take care of others. You must fill your own cup first so much so that it overflows! What's in the cup is for you, what spills onto the saucer is for everyone else!
Change is HARD!
Choose YOUR hard because chaos and peace cannot live on the same street...
Can you identify with 5 of these questions? If so, you need me in your life girlo!
- Instead of people pleasing how about learning how to prioritise your own needs?
- Instead of having the fear of judgement how about learning how to feel comfortable in your own skin? AND LOVE IT!
- Instead of having the fear of saying "no" to others how about you learning to say "yes" to yourself without guilt?
- Instead of depending on other peoples opinions and validation how about YOU decide your own value?
- Instead of hanging around with negative energy drainers sucking the life out of you, how about learning how to establish YOUR boundaries so that you can be happy? (PS: Stop giving them the straw!)
- Instead of "keeping the peace" to win the battle, how about speaking your truth gracefully to win the war?
- Instead of making excuses how about you prioritise YOUR needs so that you can fulfill your potential?
- Instead of self sabotaging how about learning how to be TRUE to YOU so that you can become even more successful?
- Instead of constant negative self talk, how about learning how to be kind to your mind so that you can focus on what you actually want your life to look and feel like!?
- Instead of taking things personally all the time, how about learning how to become more resilient so you can bounce back more quickly?
- Instead of muting your voice how about learning how to be assertive with love?
- Instead of putting yourself down how about learning how to display true self esteem?
- Instead of not taking chances how about learning from your so called "mistakes" and start to believe in your abilities?
- Instead of feeling like you "don't deserve" how about working on your self belief so that you can have the best of everything?
- Instead of being unkind to yourself how about you show yourself compassion and empathy?
- Instead of pushing yourself too hard to the point of exhaustion how about you learn how to gift yourself the respect of resting?
- Instead of ignoring your past that is chasing you how about we stop and learn from it so that you can nourish your inner child?
- Instead of showing the world the mask wearing "fake you", how about you learn the confidence to fully show up as the true authentic you? (which your tribe will love you even more for!)
- Instead of reliving the past how about you stop letting it define you and create an exciting future?
- Instead of spending time in circles that you don't enjoy how about you choose people who genuinely have your back where you can have a sense of belonging?
- Instead of looking outside of yourself for the answers how about going inward, where the answers always were?
- Instead of second guessing your gut how about you allow your inner life compass to guide you and operate from flow?
- Instead of operating from fear how about learning the tools so that you can live a courageous and brave life?
- Instead of reacting and lashing out how about learning how to respond calmly and with composure?
- Instead of living like a victim how about taking charge, becoming your own hero so that you can become a victorious warrior!?
- Instead of complaining all the time how about focus on what is working so that you can have some fun and create more wins for goodness sake!!!!!
If you can identify with more than 5, tell me again why you are already not in Soulworks!? I dare you, no I double dare you to try sell me the reasons why you are not using the Soulworks Programme? You can't! There are no reasons big enough to NOT prioritise YOURSELF!
Everything worth having is worth fighting for! You are enough and you are worth fighting for!
I have made this really simple by recording a blueprint to follow which will give you every tool I used to empower myself and YOU can too. This is personal development program is called "Soulworks".
I am gifting you one of THE best tools which will get you thinking in a different way. This will allow you to wake up, smell the coffee and put yourself in the drivers seat of your life to get you started! FOR FREE! This is where your journey begins...GET 1 SOULWORK FOR FREE!
When did we start putting our own priorities at the bottom of the list?
Maybe it was a relationship that took a wrong turn, or a career choice that didn't quite work out. Maybe you're tolerating bad behavior and your boundaries are being broken. Or YOU keep looking after others before yourself and you don't know how to stop this!
You only have one life, and it's time you put yourself first. And before you go telling yourself "this is very selfish" I am here to tell you it's NOT it is SELF-FULL! You cannot help another person BEFORE your help yourself. This is like on a plane when they tell you to put your oxygen mask on first before you assist anyone else! I help you learn the tools to make those adjustments and how to take life's challenges in your stride.
And WOW! The results are powerful.
A stronger, more positive and confident YOU. Someone that others respect and want to be around. Are YOU ready to be and feel that?YES, let's do this!
From Victim to Victorious - My Story
My intention behind this TEDx talk is for one person to be able to identify with me & that my story will inspire THEM to take positive action for themselves and become Victorious so that they will be the change we all want to see in the world.